Dear All,
The goal of conflict resolution is unity and peace. The devil will use every opportunity to take advantage of unresolved issues, especially those involving anger, bitterness and self pity so that he may bring disunity. These emotions, when left unchecked, leave a window open for the thief to walk inside.
Blessed are the Peacemakers
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
Matthew 5:9
Jesus was no stranger to conflict. The religious leaders of that time were always in disagreement with Him. But He never held grudges against anyone. He dealt with issues with love because He knew that if it was not resolved it would fester. Jesus wants us to do the same. He was always self-giving and self-denying and we are His disciples.
Michael Houdmann says:
The reason conflict resolution is so difficult is that we’re hesitant to place ourselves in uncomfortable situations. We’re also frequently unwilling to humble ourselves enough to admit that we might be wrong or to do what it might take to make amends if we are wrong. Those who do conflict resolution best are often those who would prefer not to confront others about their sin, but still do so out of obedience to God.
Jesus also said ‘Leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift’ (Matthew 5:24). This morning it is important to remember that we are blessed if we are peacemakers and resolve conflicts with His love.
Dear Lord,
I want be in peace with you and for that I have to be in peace with others because we are all your children. Help me to value others as I value myself and thereby live in harmony with everyone. Amen.
Your obedient servants in Christ,
Theo & Manju